Tuesday, October 07, 2008

Relationship

*Continuation from previous post*


I think both wont be happy cause both are so full of themselves... they forgotten the people around them or themselves... one live all by himself leaving his friends and family... the other thinks too much of his friends and family and ignore himself... it shouldn't be this way... there's a saying: too much of a good thing is bad... everything should be in average... like Person C...

Person C: A selfless person that sometimes are selfish too... he do stuff depending on what he is doing and put either himself or others as first priority... when a friend ask for help, he would help if he is capable of it... and whether he is in the condition to do so...



Relationship among humans are tough... you can't read the mind of what the other is thinking about... and you won't know what will the other do or react... all you could do is be yourself... stay firm... you can't control what others say or do... but you could control how you react to it... being selfless is not the best way... sometimes, you should be selfish too... depending on the situation and condition you're in...



Friendship, love, define it anyway you want... but some people just don't get it... friendship they will think is among friends... love, they will think is among lovers... friendship and love could be the same... it could be define is many way... friendship among friends, friendship among families, love among lovers, love among friends, love among families and so on...



'I miss you', 'I like you', 'I love you'... normally when you see or hear that, you will think of lovers... but actually you could use it to anyone... to a friend that you din see for a long time: I miss you... to a very best friend that understands you: I live you... to family members cause you'll be going far away: I love you... you could use it any where...



Well, most people have the wrong concept or idea or whatever you call it... but this can't be blame... cause we are in a multicultural country... and the custom here is different... people here are not that open minded as it is in other countries...

Not sure what's the point of me posting this... kinda emo recently... too much to think... and exams just around the corner...

haih~

9 comments:

Unknown said...

So good......

cluelessfreak said...

ahahahhaah so good.......

Unknown said...

all the good girl says is so good... that's all... no matter wad...

cluelessfreak said...

is tat britney?????
u emo eh...kawan nie mar..

Unknown said...

huh? apa britney? da good gal photo ar? dunno... tak mcm la...

emo? maybe... dunno... saje... a lot of thgs happening la...

Anonymous said...

hm.. actually hor, i think all A,B,C are happy, and at the same time, they not happy. y ler? if A really 100% selfish, he wont realise, he enjoy his style, if B really selfless, he enjoy help ppl, he wont think he rugi or wat, if C like to do things follow the situation, he may think he is the smartest, then he will happy..hahhaa.. and the things can be vice verse, so depends on situation.. so, don think too much others happy or not, i realise tats no use at all

cluelessfreak said...

hmm kelvin must have alot of friends. coz he runsing always pasal friends.

Unknown said...

tat is so false... i don have much friends... juz a few close one...

Unknown said...

people with a lot of friends wont runsing about friends la... they dont mind losing 1 or 2... hahaha...